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Surprise !!!!!

What are most people surprised to learn about you? That is todays question…..

I have not written in a while I seem to be going through some mental anguish…..I feel the need to write but I don’t seem to know where to begin …..I have been very busy lately working non-stop. my partner and¬†3 kids tend to take over the rest of my time lately. I’m mentally strained I think so I’m gonna just write as I think and lets see where it takes me …haha

…………………….OK it’s not taking me anywhere !!!…lol

Back to the Question at hand ….What are most people surprised to learn about you ????…..I have no idea what most people are surprised to learn about me…..I think I will start a survey…..and ask people I know the answer to that and see what comes up…..and guess we’ll see where this leads me…..

and this is how My Life Becomes Me….. ūüôā

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Posted by on July 27, 2011 in Choices, life, week post 2011


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Prune’s and Babies :/

So I read a post today called “I love a parade” by if you are a mom you¬†really¬†should read her Blog she is very funny …haha….

anyway it reminded me of when I was a first time mom and I was going to be the perfect mom…haha(I know¬†that’s¬†sooooo funny…haha) my children were going to eat healthy, I made my baby food so that I would know¬†exactly what my child was putting in her body and what was¬†coming¬†out ….

now I would keep some store-bought baby food jars in the pantry in case of¬†emergencies or of the few things that I did not make my self….one thing I never made was prunes ….well because I don’t like prunes …..but I was going to teach my kids that you have to try¬†something¬†at least twice before you decide you don’t like it (because the first time is because it’s something new and well we all know kids never like new things …haha…

so on this day the day my oldest tried Prunes for the first time she loved them…oh my gosh did she love them she ate the whole jar …the¬†little¬†one of¬†course….(I don’t think they sell prunes in big jars……ah!!!FOR A REASON…)

Now you all know what happens when we eat lots of prunes don’t you!!!!!!!…..I for what ever reason did not think of this…..

several hours later she is playing in her “spaceship”(walker with no wheels)…..and I hear a very loud fart …haha…..come out of my very tiny baby girl…..when I looked over …….well lets just say that it took several hours to clean up the mess that exploded out of her ……I never knew that they could hold that much…haha

I¬†learned¬†a very¬†valuable lesson that day …..and well my next two children have never tasted prunes …..because I don’t like them …..haha

and That is how MY Life Becomes Me……. ¬† ūüôā

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Posted by on July 5, 2011 in Uncategorized


Judgement Day!! (2)

So My 14yr old read my post Judgment day and do you know what she said……she said that I wasn’t talking about judgment….so I guess I should get the proper¬†definition before I continue…haha…

To Pass Judgement :

The process of Judging in Law // The pronouncement of a decision ( to give judgment) a legal decision or sentence // an opinion // the ability to weigh matters prudently ( a man of sound judgment) // the process of assessing ( an error of judgment) // a blow of fate thought of by onlookers as a just retribution.

this is what I took out of the dictionary

I think that maybe I should not have called it judging maybe I should have called it making a¬†decision¬†about¬†something without all the facts or having an¬†opinion before having all the facts……

“Judging others is one of the ways in which the unconscious self, asleep to its unflagging sense of uncertainty, maintains the illusion of being superior to all that it meets.”

I read this quote and yes this is how I feel about judging others ……this has nothing to do with breaking the law or hurting others just my opinion on how I try to treat others nothing less nothing more .

the comment that was left on my last post about Judgment I understand why they think this and I agree that the rules and laws are for this reason so that we as people can become better and learn and the injustice’ s stop but this last sentence from the comment that was left on my first post really¬†bothers me and I need to respond to it

“There have been too many injustices that have happened to people who don’t have a voice or who¬†haven’t¬†the spirit to stand up and judge the way they have been treated to not be able to judge what others are doing.”

I believe that it is ¬†BECAUSE ¬†of ¬†judgment or others opinion that ¬†too many injustices have happened to people who did not believe they had a voice and did not have the spirit to stand up for them selves and I believe it is because of those who judge others that there is racism,genocide and inequality of women to name a few ….that have come to pass…..

and that is why I try not to pass judgment on others….and that is what I was trying to get¬†across¬†the first time around….haha…I hope this was a little more clear and I really do believe this is what they were trying to get across in that comment…..then again I may be wrong…haha…

I would also like to say that we as people have come a long way and we should be pleased with the way we are moving forward maybe it’s not as fast as we would like it to be but forward it is …..

and we must all remember that all great things happen in time …..slow and steady wins the race remember…..

and that is how My Life Becomes Me….


Posted by on July 5, 2011 in Change, Choices, life, week post 2011